ADHD
(attention deficit hyperactivity disorder), according to DSM IV (TR) means
display of inattention, hyperactivity and impulsivity consistently for 6 or
more months. These symptoms are more globally present and are not limited to selective
activities like eating, learning, travelling etc. It is a serious disorder and
often requires appropriate method of remediation depending upon the intensity,
duration and impact of the problem on the child and people around him. It
affects overall growth and development of the child.
Due
to such threatening impacts of ADHD on a child, it is a term that parents fear
a lot. Surprisingly, many kids have been found to be diagnosed with ADHD these
days. Why should there be increase in ADHD cases? Is it because of our
awareness about it and the fact that people are more psycho-educated? Or is it
because of malpractice in doctors to get easy money by diagnosing and providing
unnecessary remediation? Or is there yet another reason?
ADHD
is a serious condition and requires medical and psychotherapeutic intervention. It is not same is general over enthusiasm and aggression in kids. Many people
know about the term ADHD and fear its presence in their kids. Since little
knowledge can be very misleading, any child who is found running around,
giggling and not sitting down for food or studies, is readily tagged with ADHD.
Such lose diagnoses brings parents’ world upside down, cornering the child with
behavioural remedies, medication, counselling and everything else that is not
really required.
What seems like ADHD could be simply restlessness.
What seems like ADHD could be simply restlessness.
Reasons behind restless
and edge :
1)
Inadequate
options for physical activities:
when children are not provided with enough options to play physically and vent
out their surplus energy, they find it difficult to sit down at one place. In
apartment cultures, there is not much space to run around, jump or cycle
safely. Children go down in the society sand areas to play, but that’s for a
very limited time. Rest of the time, they are physically inhibited in their
houses. In the absence of adequate discharge of energy, they become fidgety.
2)
Too
much television: TV
is being used in many households to bind children for enough minutes to feed
them without defiance. It is also used by many parents as a babysitter to get
some free time for themselves. While some amount of TV watching is not bad,
neither for the eyes nor for the overall development, too much of TV is making
children couch potatoes. Whatever little play time they have is being consumed
by TV. They also learn about violence from ‘cute’ shows like Tom and Jerry
where the two of them are constantly fighting. Research shows that too much of
TV just plays havoc with the brain cells. The whole wiring goes kaput. It has a
bad effect on children’s appetite, physical growth, ability to focus, eyesight
and psyche.
3)
High
levels of empty calories and caffeine:
children today have a free hand in buying and consuming chocolates, candies,
aerated drinks, packaged fruit drinks, wafers etc. They whine for a chocolate,
they get it. The high level of sugar and cocoa in the chocolates affect their
neurological connections, by making them too charged up. This extra volatile
energy, when non-discharged, makes them more impulsive and whining. It creates
a vicious cycle, which many parents find difficult to break. Frequent intake of
fast foods, lowers down intake of healthy food, resulting into malnutrition,
which is often a big cause of irritability and restlessness in many kids.
4)
Lack
of structured routine:
kids find it easy to eat and sleep well when they follow a routine. In the
absence of a routine, many kids feel lost, not knowing what to expect next.
Lack of routine mainly affects two areas- sleep and appetite. They sleep at odd
hours, when others in the house are awake and active. The constant noise level
results into poor sleep thus making them cranky. They eat at odd hours, when
others are doing something else, which mostly results into forced eating or
distracted eating. Such poor eating and sleeping habits disrupt the routine
further. On the other hand, kids who follow a routine at least on weekdays,
show less restlessness as they find it easy to sleep, eat, play on time.
5)
Intestinal
worms: Worms are bad
! Especially for kids, whose growth, appetite, sleep all get affected by worms
they harbor in their intestines. Tape worms often cause the kids to eat a lot but
hijack the nutrition from the food eaten, leading to malnutrition. Small worms often
result into loss of appetite and extreme crankiness in kids.
6)
Emotional
factor: Anxiety,
fear, excitement, shame can all make a child feel too restless from inside.
When a child is too excited about going to park in the evening, he may find it
difficult to sit down for coloring before the outing. While excitement is an
overt feeling, many other covert feelings play important role in a child’s
activity level. If a child is too scared of being judged for his coloring
skills, he is not likely to sit down patiently with coloring books and crayons.
Recommendations for
parents:
1)
Give
your child enough opportunity to play rough. Opt for parks instead of malls on
weekends. Buy him small trampoline before you get him Thomas engine set.
2)
Control
quantity and quality of TV watching. Do not allow TV after 6 p.m. to help the
child calm down by bedtime.
3)
Control
sugar and caffeine intake. Do not give sweets, toffees, cold drinks after 6
p.m. to help the child sleep nicely.
4)
Make
a routine on a chart paper with lots of pictorial details to help the child
relate to his day-to-day activities without much fuss
5)
Increase
his intake of omega 3 fatty acids. Give him walnuts, fish, flax seeds, pumpkin
seeds, eggs in whichever form he likes.
6)
Deworm
him regularly. Inculcate good hygiene habits to minimize the chances of
harboring too many worms.
7)
Encourage
pretend-play, role-play, relating of experiences in your child. The more he is
able to cathart his emotions, the less he will be affected by them. Children love personal and sensitive
discussions with their parents. Use this tool to know more how and what he
feels about things and people around.
8)
Don’t
tag your child ‘hyper’. Tagging always acts as prophecy for kids
9)
Play
quiet games with your child or listen to soft peaceful music with him. Show him
again and again how you are sitting and enjoying it.
10) Teach your child some relaxation techniques
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